Next to this for years, many clients came to my practice with sexuality issues when I only offered deep tissue massage and coaching. There was more to learn for me and I wanted that so dearly because I suffered myself so much around my sexuality and I never had someone to go to because it didn’t exist yet.
So even though I was already a certified postural integration practitioner, a Transformational breath coach & trainer, a Ritual Play trainer and a women’s coach, I decided to become a somatic sexological coach and trainer, to be able to dive into this amazing interesting topic and of course, to heal myself on this surface and help my clients.
Sexuality is about the life energy that makes us flow and live. You also can say ‘everything in life is sexual energy’ and when there’s something stuck in life it has everything to do with our sexuality and sexual energy. The outcome of diving into this matter with me is what clients tell me about it: they discover an immense feeling of freedom, flow, and joy in their own (also erotic) body, mind, and in their relationships and friendships. What I love most about my clients who discovered themselves and their ‘new’ sexuality is that they started to flower: authentic, unique, and beautiful.
Although, perhaps it’s more about being teached to love their authenticity, which of course has always been there like mine 😉. For years I felt ashamed for the fact that I mix sayings into hilarious jokes (and still hitting a point!) or speaking an amazing not understandable language when I’m exhausted ór in an ecstatic sexual encounter. Finally, I can see it as something special from me and love myself for it.
Flowering en Gardener with Yoyo van der Kooi, Centrum voor Levenskunst. Training focussed on the art of living and inner changing processes.
Encountertraining at Humaniversity, Egmond aan Zee. Powerful training about being honest in encounters and letting go emotionally.
Training Deep Tissue practioner at Centrum voor Levenskunst. Also known as Postural Integration or Myofascial Energetic Release (MER).
Ademcoach and trainer with Nadja Benschop, Altractive en Wilna Eenkhoorn. Transformational Breath is deep and transformative breathwork.
Tantric women’s work with Marya Norell, Carole Verbeeck and other
The Wheel of Consent with Betty Martin, training about consent within relations.
The Wheel of Consent for Lovers with Matthias Schwenteck and Robyn Dalzen.
Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sex Coach opleiding (international) with Uma Ayelet en Deej Juventin in Byron Bay and Berlijn.
Ritual Play facilitator training with Marina Kronkvist.
EMDR practioner (still in training) with Floor Slagter